Hi brothers and sister,
I need prayer about my marriage because i don't know what i need to do. My husband loves his bestfriend man more than me. Many people advice me to divorce my husband but untill now it's very difficult for me to accept that will have broken marriage. Thank you so much for all that will help me through prayers. God bless.
Hi, thank you Sister Ezra.. God bless
Eunice, are you saying you believe your husband is in a homosexual relationship with his best friend or that he values his male (platonic) friendships more? I just want to be clear.
Will be praying for the Holy Spirit to lead you as to what He will have you do. =) *hugs*
Hi Sarah , thank you so much for praying on my situation.
the bestfriend man of my husband is a muslim, the clothes/things of his bestfriend is already here before we live together as husband and wife.When i'm in other country, i chatted with my husband, i saw one man in webcam sleeping in his bed for 1 week and again the next day i saw one man in a webcam ,this man is taking something on my husbands table. His bestfriend man never talk to me or even say ''hi'' to me, his bestfriend man called 20 times a day , asking what we doing with my husband and what time we go home. My husband send 200 euro every month to his bestfriend man send bank to bank , when my husband go out with his bestfriend ,my husband pay all the bills of restaurant and other bills.His bestfriend is always free. And one time, we took a train with my husband and his bestfriend, my husband needs to go little far because he needs to talk with his sister on the mobile,and then his bestfriend followed on where my husband and sit infront of my husband,his bestfriend caress or massage my husband's legs,that's what i saw in the window glass of the train and they didn't know that i saw them.And infront of me, his bestfriend kiss my husband's face, kiss with the lips of his bestfriend on my husband face,kiss with a sound,holding the face of my husband then he kiss and after he hug my husband. I ask my husband, if its true about what i feel that there is a gay? and my husband's replied ( if my brother is gay, my bestfriend is gay or me is gay? what will you do? ) and i was really broken of what i heard because it sound's like his answer is ( YES ) and i answered my husband ( i cannot accept it,because i got married to a real man not with a gay or homo), and my husband replied ( you discriminate gays!), and i answered my husband ( i didn't discriminate gays,homo,lesbian or any third sex because even me, i have gay,lesbian friends. And then , i ask my husband again ( if i let you choose between me and your bestfriend, who will you choose?) my husband answered me ( of course i choose my bestfriend rather than you, because me and my bestfriend are been together for a very long time and you,yes you! you are my wife but we just got married, so i choose my bestfriend, my bestfriend is more than a family and more than a wife!) so i continue crying and broken, i felt i got crazy that time hearing and knowing i got married to this kind of person.
If your husband is homosexual and is not willing to separate himself from his best friend lover, then you have Biblical grounds to divorce....IF that were SARAH, I would.
I pray that the HOLY SPIRIT will lead you into what you need to do FOR YOU--BEFORE there are any children to further complicate this situation. I will be actively praying for you on this one....
So sorry to hear your story,Eunice. Will keep you in my prayers.
Hi sister Becky I will pray for your daughter friend, and your sister. Our God is an awesome God,
he still is in the healing business. He loves us all!