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Is safe sex before marriage a sin????

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Good point Gabe. If the birds and the bees are not presented in the right way ... our youth will be stung with the wrong message.
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any sex before nmarriage is a sin, as God hhas blessed the union of marriage with safer sex that is knowing that person is yours and yours only.It is also a experience shared by two loved ones who have commited their self to each other in wedlock. Think about it what image would we be painting for none believes who know what we stand for .Stay blessed and if lost seek God first
At what point did Adam and Eve get 'married' . I don't recall the wedding date.
If you can recall the the birthday of the Sun, I will tell you about the Wedding date..... lol. Well, on a more serious note, Adam and Eve definitely got married. That is the point at which the writer added "...... ftheerefore shall a man leave his father and mother...." (Genesis 2:24). In the previous verse, we are told that God BROUGHT the woman to the man.
Being married by someone ... does not mean you are married if you get my drift. Marriage is not Marriage unless it is certified and verified by a State official.
Thank you Bro for asking , because even the Bible says that when when you will receive a reply.
Bro Emma I have good news for you, that Sin is not only what you do, but your very nature, which has an
in-built mechanism of rebelling against God, our make, oh,oh, I mean all of us are like that.

About safe sex, safe or not safe, sex before marriage can be fun, but according to His Divine plan
,it's not in order, which doesn't only have physical consequences like diseases,but spiritual, mental and emotional if not financial too.

Am not condemning no one, but am also not condoning it. Get me right, if you would like to follow the Bible to the letter, then it is the breaking of the law-sin, rebelling against God's express word-"So a man shall leave his parents and join with his wife and they shall become one flesh....and let no man separate that which the Lord hath joined together".

In conclusion, read Messages To Young People, EGW, for more highlight; please don't use this forum to find a way of justifying anyone or anything. Let your motive be clear because that is what God will judge not what you ask or what you do.

Thank you once again for this wonderful question.
May God Bless You!

You want to know about the safe bit, the sex bit or the marriage bit?

It seems to me that you may be thinking - Hmmm... if I practise SAFE sex before marriage then its not sin.. as opposed to UNSAFE sex before marriage... ooooh bad.

Dude, is sex before marriage a sin safe and unsafe? Yes, the Bible's pretty clear on that. Sorry.

And dont be thinking that you'll just have to get married as soon as you can so you can have sexual relations and then learn down the track (most likely the morning after the wedding) that the person you married was not the right one, but by then its too late.. you're married... Kinda sucks doesnt it!!

In order to avoid all that hideous drama Id be practising self-control and lots of prayer. Lots and lots and lots of prayer... for temporary blindness to avoid temptation in the least (that was a joke do not be poking your eyes out with a fork)
Yes...absolutely this is's a big fornication. Hmmm, just wonder, if I may ask, why did you say it's a safe sex the fact it is a forbidden before the sight of men and of God...", It is within the bound of marriage not for single people...",
Exactly. Three Thumbs Up.
Definitely sinful..... If it is not sinful, then it will not be necessary to marry.


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