there's nothing that talks against oral in marriage. It only talks about men and men having sex like a man and woman isn't allowed.
Interesting, that it seems to be allowed to use hands and mouth during foreplay, but that there is a big "NO" when it comes to the genitals.
Never read sth like that in the bible and Gods own creation - the female and male anatomy, the functions of hand and mouth, the senses - tells me that sexual actions performed with hand or mouth are def. naturally.
Ask myself if we really should follow an idea about sex, that was created by the system of the catholic church in the medieval ages?
Sodomy (/ˈsɒdəmi/) is generally anal or oral sexual activity between people or sexual activity between a person and a non-human animal (bestiality), but may also include any non-procreative sexual activity. source
The definition says Sodomy may also include any non-procreative sexual activity....should we now act like a special denomination and forbid every non-procreative sexual activity?
There are no biblical sources about that, only what the catholic church and their influence in a lot of cultures defined as Sodomy.
Your pastor is right....it is wrong, if you force your partner to do it.
Besides that...Moses listed down so many rules about sexual behavior and none included oral sex. I guess it would have been mentioned there if it would be a def. "NO".
On the Sabbath! My eyes and ears caught fire. LOL. Dior Manta Tambunan I work among men who say and speak about vulgar things. I didn't expect this here. I think they do have a place for this in groups where you can ask direct questions. Hope you find an answer. Let the Holy Spirit guide you and you will know if it is wrong to do.