WORDS CAN DESTROY...
HELLO EVERYONE...
Have you ever encounter people who have been so mean with how they SPEAK against you or TELL something that might HURT your FEELINGS???
How are you going to deal with this SITUATIONS???
Finally, I would like to quote this, “You are what you read, hear, and see. You are what you think you are. After
all, what you know and say about yourself is more important than what
people think they know and say about you.”
HOPE you can share experiences or ideas, advices or tips to overcome about HURT feelings...
thanks...
Have you ever encounter people who have been so mean with how they SPEAK against you or TELL something that might HURT your FEELINGS???
How are you going to deal with this SITUATIONS???
Finally, I would like to quote this, “You are what you read, hear, and see. You are what you think you are. After
all, what you know and say about yourself is more important than what
people think they know and say about you.”
HOPE you can share experiences or ideas, advices or tips to overcome about HURT feelings...
thanks...
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Permalink Reply by N Him on -
This is a good post. One suggestion I might throw out is to not think so highly of one's self and one's opinion or interpretation. What I notice is that people 'think' they have TRUTH. So thus ... they have to speak out they think .,... no matter the cost and no matter how it hurts because they think it to be Truth.
But the REAL TRUTH is that if we can't speak it in LOVE ... then it just ain't TRUTH.
Just my 2 cents worth :)
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Permalink Reply by N Him on
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:) I was waiting for you MsMS.
MsMS why don't YOU teach us by example.
ME ... I'm just a sinner saved by Grace ... it's you that has to be perfect. SO demonstrate your perfection.
Honestly MsMS ... you comment is just inflammatory and does not contibute to the well being of this forum.
So, just cool it. :) Seriously, do you have to bring conflict into each and every thread? This thread was nice until your snide judgmental comment.
God Bless.
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Permalink Reply by McCoy on -
Hi N Him
Can you clarify how by saying, "teach us by example" is inflammatory?
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Permalink Reply by N Him on
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IT was personal. IOWs it was directed at me ... not all of us.
This personal issue needs to be stopped. Speak to the issue. State ... WE need to teach by example. Do not single out one particular individual. That becomes a teacher and pupil situation. It's accusatory. This is one cause for trouble on this forum.
We can make our points with out making them personal.
Hope that helps you ..
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Permalink Reply by N Him on
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At no time was my post personal. I never declared that ANY one "hurt' ME. I am not sure why I get these continued fabrications. Please ... let's just be nice.
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Permalink Reply by N Him on
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Well John. They are a good example of the thread .
They show 'words that can destroy' . :)
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Permalink Reply by N Him on
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The question of the OP was:
"Have you ever encounter people who have been so mean with how they SPEAK against you or TELL something that might HURT your FEELINGS???"
ANd the answer is ... YES. I just have. :)
The original poster had good intentions. Yet, one person can come and destroyed that good will. :( Sad
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Permalink Reply by N Him on
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It sure didn't last long did it. But I am not giving up hope John.
I hope this was just a belch from an old addiction. :)
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Permalink Reply by N Him on
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Please ... may I ask that all on this forum cease from pointing fingers. Please. Just take it in for yourself and if you can't take it in ... then just drop it and not throw it in others faces.
Please.
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