sex sebelum nikah?..

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Permalink Reply by Suzika J. Gaban on June 28, 2009 at 8:58pm

interesting topic.. macam mana ah?? Actually, there's a lots of ways you can choose. It's depend on individual. First of all, you must set your mind because what your mind think is what your body act. That's why we have "Body Language". We never realize it until we did it. Our mind is the "Mastermind" of everything that we do. If we didn't set our mind, that's when people easily fall into the temptations. If your thought wants it, your body will go for it. It's just a psychology. Secondly, you must put God first and next your family. Once you put your partner(boyfriend/girlfriend) first or second, you will fall into it for sure because you only think about your partner and no one else. Always have this thought and question, "Fear God." "What do our family get if we did it? Do they feel proud of us?"
Thirdly, never tease your partner. Never start on petting. Teasing and petting are both dangerous. It might be a joke for us but never assume that our partner think the same. Petting is more dangerous. Petting also sex but it's more lighter. Once you start on kissing, it will go further and further.. that's when both can't control themselves and do sex. Fourth, Exodus 20:14 "You shall not commit adultery." Follow His commandments and you shall be safe. Never go for a date alone at the man/woman's house or any close and dark places. Or else "something" going to test you. Never think that if you're a strong christian, you'll never fall. The temptations are more greater.
Remember that if he/she really love you, he/she will never ask for it until both of you legally husband and wife. Never trust with his/her promises or you shall lose your dignity.
Above all, always put our religion and family priority in our life and set our mind carefully.

Permalink Reply by charldi lauren on June 28, 2009 at 11:43pm

tq2 sujie...so pa pndapat kwan2 yg lain.?ada lgi cara?..

Permalink Reply by Boyon on June 29, 2009 at 12:09am

Selaaaaaaalu ingat Tuhan. Dia selaaaaaaalu tengok kita tu. Malu tau. Apa ja yang kita buat Dia record. Termasuklah perlakuan seks sebelum atau selepas menikah. Nanti, bila sampai masa pengadilan, Dia kasi tengok balik tu sama kita apa yang Dia sudah record. Jadi... pandai-pandai lah mengurus diri... Hehehe!

Permalink Reply by Mark Brian on July 6, 2009 at 7:58pm

PADA PENDAPAT SA LAH. LEBIH BAGUS JANGAN BERCOUPLE.THE BEST WAY TO ME.KALO DA CUKUP MATANG BARU CARI PASANGAN AND KAWEN.

Permalink Reply by charldi lauren on July 11, 2009 at 8:23am

tapi belia masa kini suka tuk bcoupel..mcam mana kita mahu bagi nasihat kjpda drg?..termasuk kita yg blum kawin?..

Permalink Reply by Suzika J. Gaban on July 11, 2009 at 10:31am

mmg susah tue mau halang org kalau sudah cinta sama cinta "munyit"... nasihat jak bah derang, biar derang sendiri menilai betul atau tidak apa yg dorang buat... org nie kan.. kena dulu baru sedar bah... tu lah... lagi org muda tinggi@kuat tul "curiousity" nie... sama egoist butul bah. kdg2 cakap pun, teda juga mau dingar. satu cara yg org pernah guna kan, biar org yg ada experiences gini p cakap sma drang.. klu yg teda experience, mana derang percaya tue.. makin lagi drg akan cabar ko buat... hahaha... doa kan jak lah untuk mereka...