WHATS our PROBLEM

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Permalink Reply by Quacinda Jodyne Topkok on May 31, 2011 at 10:24pm

Maybe some of us should ask that question (why are we still single) but some of us should be asking IS there something wrong with me/us? And still some of us know ourselves very well, we are aware of our hang-ups (and some care about it and so don't).

Permalink Reply by Water Lilly on December 16, 2011 at 1:46pm

I  am  still  single   because  I have  not met   my Adam.  I  could  have  been  marry   but  I  am not  going  to  rush  into  something  that  the  LORD  is not a  part  of.

Permalink Reply by Sue Huggins on March 13, 2012 at 2:55am

Please trust in God , put him first, wait on him because his time is no our , you know the good thing about it he alway answer right on time .........

Permalink Reply by Ferdz on April 4, 2012 at 6:38am

really?... could I be your Adam? :)

Permalink Reply by Shaz on January 21, 2012 at 12:11am

1 Corinthians 7:8

1 Corinthians 7:32-35 

Mark 12:25

 

Could the problem be that we feel that marriage and a family is a right of passage for all of us?  But we know that is not true.

We refuse to hold the notion that GODs plan for some of us may never take that path. We spend our time looking at those around us, looking at what others have, feeling it is our right too and we pine for what will never be for some of us.

The Bible makes it clear that marriage will not be for many, and what probably needs to be addressed is how, as single people we make best use of the liberty we have and not spend time grieving (as some do) over something or someone that may never be ours to have.

I come from a different place with my thoughts (hindsight!!) but, in doing so appreciate so much more the best of being single.

Permalink Reply by GEMII PRINCESS on March 12, 2012 at 4:36pm

sometimes i wonder myself what is the problem, why am i still single, and why do i have no interest in dating. can i get some opinions?

Permalink Reply by Sue Huggins on March 13, 2012 at 3:07am

 Maybe God is prepering you for something or someone special, that why you're not interested in anyone but just keep the faith in God and he will take care of you , dating will come in the right time, keep putting your turst in God.

Permalink Reply by Pamella Spence on March 31, 2012 at 2:03pm

Maybe we are looking for the perfect person who does not exist in this world.

Permalink Reply by Sue Huggins on March 31, 2012 at 7:21pm

thank you for your comment but remember we have a God who can do all thing all we have to do is put our faith at work in him  because he say But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a (rewarder) of them that diligently seek him. he can make your darknight turn in the sunshine so he can do all thing ,  Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.   

Permalink Reply by Ferdz on April 3, 2012 at 2:42pm

Let's be candid... both men and women have set of standards... and that's good. When we pray let's be specific of what we want. All I know when that day comes... I'll be a good husband & father. LOL

Permalink Reply by Nyambura Akoth on April 4, 2012 at 6:00pm

I seem to think that perhaps most of us fear to get out of our comfort zones and go out and mingle,  Others find it embarassing to join social networks like Adventists online.  Finally one other reason I can think of, please correct me if I am wrong, is according to Matthew 19:12 "For there are different reasons why men cannot marry: some, because they were born that way; others, because men made them that way; and others do not marry for the sake of the Kingdom of heaven.  Let him who can accept this teaching do so.

Permalink Reply by Deon Ann Jones on May 5, 2012 at 5:42pm

I would definitely agree with Nyambura, I think I am one of those who do not come out of my comfort zone but I am trying to be more open. I think you make some good points.

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